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Why do you prefer calls much less then the face to face discussions. The emotional tricks of our brain.

    Our brain has a fascinating function that explains why a lot of people like less the phone calls then a  face to face meetings. It is a function that creates a feeling of connection with other people. Did you heart anything about this before? If no, then this article is for you.

   Italian neuroscientist Giacomo Rizzolati found mirror neurons in our brain, that reproduce other
people's emotions, when we see them acting. For example, when you see somebody open the book this neurons activate same part of your brain as you would be opening the book too. This important connection between other people's actions and us helps us to understand better people intentions and feel how do they feel about something. Usually this process we cal empathy - the capacity to understand or feel what another person is experiencing from within the other person's frame of reference. It's like to place oneself in another's position.
   That is why we understand people's intentions much better when wee see them. Their gestures or micro mimics reflect by mirror neurons and activate same feelings in us as we would experience the same emotions. And it is a proven fact, that gestures and mimics of the face don't lie, that is why we better understand them talking face to face, then on phone. Do you reflect this for you? If yes, share please this information also with others and spread the knowledge!
   Thank you!


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