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5 Successful principles of goal setting for the NEW YEAR! It's not about SMART!

    For the last 6 years I was practicing intensively goal setting tools and one of the important part of it -is to set up goals for upcoming year. It's not as chaotic as a lot of people do it, just making a bucket list. If you really want to succeed, let me explain crucial moments that made a huge difference in my personal yearly achievements.

    First, define you personal mission and vision - these 2 elements are crucial to make your goals aligned to your life meaning. Otherwise you will be floating as a boat on the sea without any long-term direction.
     For example, my personal vision statement at the moment is: "supporting and positive international trainer and coach with balanced life ( work- exercise - food - relaxing- travel) and efficient life management style!"
                           my personal mission statement is: "bring the positive impact around the world (no matter culture) by training, coaching, projects that discover and develop human potential, bring clarity, help people to find solutions, make others feel important, act in harmony with their inner values!"
                                                       * how to define you persona mission and vision you can find here

    Second, define your personal values- they guide you in any activity, since they divide the world in important things that make you happy and the rest of the world!
     For example my personal values are:

  • personal development
  • traveling
  • family
  • help others in personal development, communication
  • self-sufficiency, wealth
  • health
 Third and the crucial difference of any year goal setting- set your goals in conformity with this values. Then you always will feel exited about any daily tasks and activities, you will feel fulfilled, when you accomplish goals, you will feel happy during your next year journey!
   For example, for personal development I have a goal to read certain amount of books in 2018! 

   Fourth, to make your goals achievable we have to make a plan: how many books I will be able to read during next year. Here it's good to take in consideration your previous experience (how many you have read in previous years and also to plan amount of time daily, weekly, monthly, yearly) Why? It will help you to keep balance during the year, because if you know that in a week you have to read 3,5h and you didn't made it for first week, you are aware that next week you have to plan more hours of reading. This principle helped me to be persistent and write more than 70 articles in the blog in 2017!  Some months I was writing 3 articles, others - 10, so I've balanced  my possibilities with my goal number! And in the end of the year I achieved successfully what I planned!
  Fifth, the time plan is an incredible tool to balance your life between all the goals and values!  It's so important to not to forget about some values, focusing on other ones too much. For example, If I have 5 goals in personal development that totally consume about 4h a day, then I become aware,planning my 2018 that for other values I will have less time and then, I will feel imbalance in my life. Why that It is super important to plan yearly goals by values, distribute time between them in a sufficient proportion and keep a monthly track of your results, adjusting your next month activities!

Wish you all the best in your plans for 2018 and if you Find this article useful for others, please let it share and spread these principles around the glob! Thank you!💖😊


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